There is a Chinese proverb that states, "Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day, teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime". The central premise of this proverb is the same as the more recent axiom of "each one, teach one". Passing knowledge from one person to another is the surest way of increasing the success of future generations and society in general. Many of the services and products we purchase are the direct result of years of painstaking craftsmenship, which was passed down through generations of people. The end result of this passion was excellence, dedication, and high quality.
Over the past five years, I have noticed a growing trend among Generation "Y", that is in the opposite direction. Our young people no longer want to take the time to learn anything, they put instant gratification before the reward of working toward a goal. Evidence of this growing trend is the number of Baby Boomers who now have children between 20 - 25 still in their homes. Many have already graduated from college, but don’t want to deal with the harsh realities of life on the outside and have retreated back to the safety and surety of Mom and Dad’s place. To make matters worse, there are many parents who feel it is okay for them to return, which only compounds the problem.
Unfortunately, it isn’t just Generation "Y" that is having problems, many of the same traits are being exhibited in Generation "X" and Baby Boomers. I am reminded of the last two consults I had with potential clients. One was a team in their mid twenties and the other was a service provider in his late thirties. In each case, they were seeking funding for a start-up business and wanted to know what it would take for me to get them funded. I explained it was a lengthy process, but if they were willing to do the work, it could be done.
As is my standard practice for an initial consultation, I pulled out a marketing form I devised that talks about the five C’s and the four P’s of introducing a product into market. As I began to explain to the twenty year olds, they had the same look on their face, your four year old does when you are trying to explain the importance of eating vegetables. This only got worse as I explained how most of the information that goes on this sheet must be provided by them. It wasn’t that I didn’t know how to complete the form, but I wanted them to understand all that is involved in convincing a financier that they are a worthwhile investment. More importantly, I wanted to teach them the process of determining who their target market was, how to differentiate themselves from the other companies that offer the same services, and all of the intricacies of starting and maintaining a successful business.
The service provider in his late thirties was more receptive to the marketing form and had a fairly good grasp of his target audience. However, he questions were about how long it would take to get the money. When I explained it depended largely on who he was trying to get the funding from he began to look at me as though I had no idea of what I was talking about. I went on to tell him of the various sources of funding and what they require and how I could help him create a business plan or funding proposal to facilitate his needs, but there was no quick way other than loan sharks. Finally, I referred him to my website and told him to get a flavor for who I am and my philosphies and to give me a call if he thought we could work together…………I’m still waiting.
Both of these examples further my postulation of the "just gimme the fish" mentality. They view the detail of obtaining what they want as blah, blah, blah and insist on a faster solution to get them what they want. One of the twenty somethings said to me, "I didn’t know it took all that" and I explained the reason it does is so you fully understand the responsibility your are taking on and have every opportunity to succeed. The older gentleman wanted to know why they just couldn’t give him the money, "he was good for it" and would make repayment in no time.
We as a society need to get back to a few simple truths: No there is no easy way out. Yes, life is hard, and Yes, you have to work for everything you get! The best advice I can give is take the time and let a few good fisherman teach you about bait, tackles and weather conditions and get ready for a lifetime of fresh fish!!












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